so today my dad is DJing. He's at home waitting for this new guy Jason to come and help him out. He meet him threw JS a guy thats been working for my dad since i was born. So he meet this guy once, and hes never DJed bfor. So he was supposed to be here for 12, and its 1:15, and hes still not here:S nice first impression hein? :3 So i had math school this morning then on the way home get la belle province then get home. We get in and my dad was unloading the dishwasher and i could tell he was a lil upset, like he was frustrated but before. So then im eating and i dont even have time to watch my show cause this argument starts. So here's the deal, my momhad asked Sean (brother) to bring out Charlie for a walk. She said get ready them bring him out. So Sean had spent morning sleeping eating and watching TV. Then he was going to go take a shower then my dad said no, go bring the dog out now! cuz he still hadnt.then we get home and seans still home (btw it was around 12 he asked sean to bring out the dog). so Sean had been in the bathroom for a while, and while he was in there my dad had told him to hurry up and bring the dog out fast! So then when were home, dad after starts screaming at Sean. Then sean was being stupid and saying you asked me would you like to bring the dog out? and not go bring the dog out. Then obviously dad got even more mad, cause respect means everything to my dad and sean talking back gets dad over mad. Dad was saying next time you fight me on bringing out the dog and stalling( so basically sean not doing it the minute he says) im going to take something away from you and i wont tell you what. dad was just going on and on, screaming at sean and he barely said anything back. Sean was ready to bring the dog out. Dads like your not even ready, seans ike yes i am, hes like no, u dont have your coat on and the dog and ur not out the door. Then sean got jacket and boots on and stuff. At one point he said that even i always fight him and kept talking. im bursting inside cuz im pissed off at him. K, so ya, i used to fight him a lot and b like later or seomthing, cause he would ask me and want it done that minute, for me to stop right away what ever i was doing cause im just a kid so who the fuck cares about what im doing? and he would yell blablabla. That was years ago!-.- and he brings it up now? i dont think so-.- hes like you dont respect me to do it wehn i say, its not a lkac of communication, its a lack of respect. Then sean leaves, and dads in kitchen and says it again, i going to disconnect the tv downstairs, bring the cable somewhere else, in our room (to my mom). and hes like again you guys always fight me blabla and i said when was the lasst time that i fought you on bringing out the dog?? and he couldnt answer that he goes on computer. then he says again bout th tv, and im like why would you do that?? and OH he said you guys spend all your time downthere. i answered i only watch tv once twice if im lucky downtthere! at one point i said: when we were yougn ya we spent our whole sat mornings downthere but that was in primaire! and i said whats wrong with sean watching tv downthere in the mornign?? AAARRGG my dads so stupid. sure to you guys you rpob think i get mad at him for nothing and i should just calm down, but i cant. I HATE WHEN HE JUDGES ME! he never has anything good to say. and one point mom was like we could set bounderies for when sean watching tv and dad totally rejects that idea-.- he only uses old arguments and like saying if you dont do thisor do this then im going to take away soemthing, my god! am i 8? no! dont treat me like i am! and mom, she thinks im so young too-.- like her asking me to stop saying the word shit, cuz im moves like jagger he says it, and im just singing along and that bugged her. god-.- soemtimes i feel like doing all the stuff they dont want me to and dont think i ever would. getting drunk, not interresting in drugs, but do whatever the hell they dont want me to. swear my head off. k, when i told my mom the whole story bout the drunk guys at school she was totaly shocked and like oh my god how could they do that? and the way she judges too, being like trouble makers makes me laugh so muchXD it jsut really pisses me off peeps judging me, saying stuff thats in the past. BITCH NO I DONT LIVE IN MY PAST ANYONE im moving on so leave the old stuff behind
whatevs, parents suck and i have to get ready for swimming but ill write more bout stupid parents later, tell a lil story bout how they have always been
slush with skittles drinker
ps i gotta find new nickname:P its too long to write
I think your parents are total spases! but don't get to worked up about your parents treating you like you're younger, cause they are in DENIAL! they don't want to admit that you are getting older. ALL parents do that.
ReplyDeleteAnd i think you have every right to be upset at yur dad cause he should try RESPECTING you and sean!
he was probably letting out his frustration on that jason guy on you guys.
and sean will obviously talk back because like you said you USED to fight back at him all the time. so think about it. sean is doing it at around the same age you probably did it. we all talk back at our parents and they hate it! but at one point i guess both sides will learn that its useless. you should maybe try telling your dad how you feel. cause i do't think a daughter should feel judged by her father. daughters are supposed to feel judged by her peers not her family.
-Sekoya
I agree with julia. Your parents are both spazzing out because you're growing up so fast. Your dad goes more on the angry side & your mom goes more on the worrisome side. Your parents are very judgmental though... I'd love to straighten that out haha :P Their parenting methods (especially your dad's) only make you want to rebel against them, so obviously, something's not right. As I said, the lack of communication in your family is gradually "destroying" it... That was dramatic, but you know what I mean. There's such tension between you guys most of the time! The only thing that could resolve the problem is talking.
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thansk julia, but you know me, cant talk to my dad about that:P but yeah all parents r in denial but what are we supposed to do about it??
ReplyDeleteand eka, yeah but maybe its just me thats like this, like im the one that doesnt wanna talk, feels to weird...
and lol yeah but they dont no there parenting skills make me want to rebel more...
Your whole family doesn't talk, not just you! Well, when you find the strength to talk to your parents, that is when you'll completely reveal the strength inside of you. I know that. They don't know how you feel so obviously they're just going to do what they THINK is right.
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I agree with Erika! Find the strengh to do it. just give it time and itll come cause one day you won't be able to handle it so you'll just POP! the strengh to talk to them will come cause its there just wait.
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